She stood before him and surrendered herself to him and sky, forest, and brook all came toward him in new and resplendent colors, belonged to him, and spoke to him in his own language. And instead of merely winning a woman he embraced the entire world and every star in heaven glowed within him and sparkled with joy in his soul. He had loved and had found himself. But most people love to lose themselves. . Hermann Hesse
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When it comes to love, our hearts are open to the entire world. We are willing to sacrifice all for the sake of our loved ones. But the truth is, we don’t want to lose ourselves in the process. Instead, we want to be fully present with our loved ones.

We want to be identified with them so that every moment of their lives is filled with love and joy. And yet, most people choose to allow their loved ones to be lost among the wide world around them. They would rather lose themselves than lose their loved ones.

Source: Demian. Die Geschichte Von Emil Sinclairs Jugend

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